Introducing the Healing Pathways and ASAM Books on Valkyrie Counseling Group

What these books are, what they are not, and why they exist. This post is part of the StevePatterson.online archive because it connects several parts of my current work: Healing Pathways, Valkyrie Counseling Group, recovery education, group facilitation, habit change, and the ongoing question of how to preserve human presence in a field increasingly shaped … Read more

Trust Yourself in the Digital Age

Originally written before the AI era. Revised for StevePatterson.online. I moved fully into the online world in the mid-1990s, and one of the first things I noticed was how quickly people became dependent on technology. It did not take long. The addiction showed up almost immediately. At this point, almost everyone reading this knows someone … Read more

10 Things Gen X Needs to Understand About AI (Without the Panic)

We’ve been through the Cold War, the dot-com crash, 9/11, smartphones, 2008, and COVID. Every one of those moments sorted people into two groups: the loud reactors and the quiet adapters. AI is shaping up to be another one of those moments — and the sorting is already underway. On a recent episode of the … Read more

We Built the World We Complain About: A Gen X Reckoning

There’s a particular kind of irony that follows Gen X around, and it’s worth sitting with for a minute. We’re the generation that complains about social media toxicity, algorithmic outrage, everyone-has-a-platform chaos — and we’re also the generation that built most of it. Not in a bragging way. In a quietly-showed-up-and-did-the-work way that turned out … Read more

Something Strange Has Happened: How Gen X Men Are Navigating a World They Didn’t Sign Up For

There’s something strange happening to Gen X men right now, and most of us aren’t talking about it out loud. We were raised in an analog world, trained for a stable one, and now we’re operating in something that looks nothing like either. The formula was supposed to be simple — learn a trade, get … Read more

The Montego Powers Sting: The True Story Behind a Fake Recruit and the Early Internet’s Wild West

The Montego Powers Story

The story of Montego Powers has circulated on college football message boards for more than twenty-five years, often as a half-remembered fragment that loses accuracy with every retelling. My name appears in some versions, disappears in others, and is often replaced by a simplified explanation that treats the entire situation as an early internet prank … Read more